Monday, January 3, 2011

Update to Deal Breakers

UPDATE: South Loop Social Light is thorough and would like to know what I like visually. These aren't dealbreakers, but preferences.

I hesitate to put this down because what I want may not come in the package that I'm expecting, BUT she asked, so here goes:

  • I like tall men, but I do not discriminate. I'm 5'5, so he just has to be at least 5'9
  • I like men who look like athletes. What type of athletes T? Doesn't matter: from the linebacker to the kicker in football to basketball to soccer. If he looks like he conditions his body to play professional sports, I'm typically in love. Also, I work out 3-4 times a week, so the Kevin James, Heavy D, Biggie couch potato look isn't really my thing.
  • I would prefer he dressed like a grown man, so no Ed Hardy shirts or skinny jeans. I have no problem with sneakers, if they're fresh. (Yes, I said sneakers instead of gym shoes. It's like someone sucked the Chicago out of me)
  • I like my men pretty, but not too pretty. Think Darren Sharper vs. Ginuwine (I would never date Ginuwine). I want him to look like he cares that there is no dirt under his nails, but not to have clear polish on his fingers. Like a balance of rugged and bourgeois.
  • I do date outside of my race and when it comes to white guys, I prefer the ones who look like they belong at a country club vs. the he could play in a band type (my homegirls love the shag, I can't go.)
How's that? I think you have a picture of my preferences now. Anything else?


South Loop Social Light said...

Perfect! So we can pass on short, soft looking guys wearing Ed Hardy lol...

Anonymous said...

Mmmmmm Darren Sharper...I'm sorry, what were you saying?